noticed that two my gilfriends have some kind of relationships by internet. one have fallen in love with guy who lives in another city, she haven't seen him, but sure that this is really serious. another one met her boy in social club, he came to her city for two weeks and then came back to where he lives and they are kind of dating and are really in love whith each other. so what does it mean? can't we find a soulmate in city we live in? are that criterions we want the boy to satisfy so high that there are only few people in the world we can date with?